Monday, March 26, 2012

Asking for What You Require

Last week I received an invite to be on the CTV Morning Live show in Edmonton to discuss my chapter in the Pearls of Wisdom book and how it was one of the 26 that got picked over the thousands that were submitted. Wha hoooooooo!

When I received the official email I was over the moon excited. A dear friend was here so we hollered and hugged and laughed and cried and it was amazing. Then I just had to phone hubby to share the exciting news with him. The day prior I had told him if I was invited on the show he needed to be available to take me as I required his support to do this. So when I called to share the exciting news that I had been officially invited he needed to make sure he got the information he required to make my previous request happen. What day is it? What time is it? When would we leave? When would we get back? This wasn’t the excitement I was looking for. I didn’t have any answers to those questions, nor did any of that matter to me at that exact moment. I wanted him to support my excitement through happiness, joy and maybe even a little screaming. LOL
 
I got off the phone and told my friend I missed a step. I didn’t ask hubby for what I required in that conversation. Since I wanted a certain type of support from him, it was my responsibility to ask for it. I cannot assume he knows what I require, as we all know what assuming does. He was going off what I told him I required the day before. My friend and I giggled about it and it was done.
 
I remember years ago being so frustrated that I would actually have to ask for what I require. If he loves me he would know exactly what I require when I required it. SO THERE! And let me tell you, that never worked out well. I was disappointed and blamed him continuously. He walked around confused and annoyed.
 
As the years have went by and I have chosen to take full responsibility for my happiness and my life, I have chose to ask for exactly what I require, and if I miss the step -- it isn’t his fault. I don’t go into blame, not of him, or of myself. I just missed a step, big deal. I can always make the request the moment I realized I missed the step. It is just that easy.
 
I see the same thing with other couples, relationships with family and friends -- and even relationships with people and their Angels. People go into victim mode instead of asking for what they require. In pretty much every reading I do the Angels always say - ASK for more help, we can’t help unless you ask. State what you require. Ask for what your heart desires.
 
One of the funnest and easiest ways I have found to get into a habit of asking my Angels for what I require is through an Angel To Do List. I have 2 on the go -- one for me and one for my energetic support team. You can use a notebook, a file on your computer or a scrap piece of paper. Fill it out every morning or evening and watch the miracles happen!!
 
No matter who you are looking for support from, Angels or humans, asking for what you require is the only way to ensure you will receive it. Or, you will find out that person cannot support you in that manner and you can request it from someone who can.

Infinite blessings,
Glenyce Hughes
Medium & So Much More
www.glenyce.net

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Sunday, March 18, 2012

From Grief to Peace

16 months ago a friendship that was very dear to me, ended. It was unexpected and not something that I ever wanted to happen. Ever. It did though and it took me on a journey from the deepest grief to eventually, months later, peace.

It was a very difficult journey as all journeys with grief are. At times feeling so incredibly angry, at other times crying myself to sleep in sorrow, at other times feeling numb.

For those of you who have went through an ending you understand what I am talking about. It can be someone we love dying, a marriage ending, a pet dying, getting fired from a job, children leaving home after graduation, children moving to the other parents home after a divorce, or even when friends or family members move away.

We make up all sorts of stories to distract us from the grief. If it was a relationship that ended we attempt to make the other person bad or wrong, if it was a death we try to make sense of it, if it was a natural progression in life such as children leaving home for college we tell ourselves it is the way it is supposed to be. Truth is we are hurting and distracting ourselves only prolongs the inevitable. We have to feel it to get to the other side of it -- where the peace of it is.

The other night I was talking to a friend about this situation and I made the comment that “it takes time to get over grief.” As soon as I said it I realized the limiting belief in that. The next day I sat down to have my usual conversation with Creator and we discussed it. He explained that I had many limiting beliefs that were stopping me from choosing peace:
-- I was hanging on to the grief to prove to myself, and others, that I went through hell and just how hard it was for me.
-- If I let it go it meant that what I went through was nothing. 
--Since I know I create my reality I also believed that I had done something so horribly wrong, I deserved this hell.
-- I had to be ashamed of myself for creating this.
-- Grief takes time to get through.
--And many other limiting beliefs I don’t remember, which is very common after a ThetaHealing session

As Creator and I discussed this he cleared all of these limiting beliefs changing them to peace. It was so powerful, so amazing, so free-ing! Finally, 16 months later, I have stepped into the peace of the whole situation. I accept that it happened. I understand it from the Creator’s definition -- rather than making up all sorts of stories in my head about how wrong she is or how bad I am. It just is what it is, no judgement, no shame, no more wasted energy on trying to figure out “why.”

Now that I am on the peace side of this situation Creator has requested we hold a “Conversation with Creator -- From Grief to Peace” for anyone who is ready to move from grief to peace. He will provide you with powerful energy shifts, healings and teachings to shift grief, any type, to peace. Divine energies will work with you and your energy field while you listen to clear anything that is blocking you from feeling peace on all levels.

This teleclass will assist anyone in any level of grief, to peace. The grief can be recent or from years ago, and caused by any of the following:
  • a loved one crossing over
  • a pet crossing over
  • a miscarriage 
  • a marriage/romantic relationship ending
  • a friendship ending or changing
  • family members being born with disabilities
  • a job/career ending
  • not getting a promotion
  • retirement
  • abuse or trauma in your childhood
  • an accident that have caused your life to change
  • anywhere you have experienced sadness
However you choose to find peace in your situation, know that you are not alone. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, open up to friends, book a ThetaHealing session, take up journaling, or find another healthy alternative to assist you into the peace you so deserve.
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Infinite blessings & tons of peace,
Glenyce Hughes


Sunday, March 4, 2012

Quick and Easy Way to Stop the "Crazy"

Since spending the month in Mexico one thing Creator has had me shifting, changing and becoming extremely aware of are the stories I tell myself. WOW! It is amazing to me the crap my ego can make up in my head! From mean things about my body to stories about others gossiping about me to imaginary fights with hubby, etc. 

Creator has explained that our ego does this to distract us from our greatness, from our amazing-ness, from our awesome-ness. Do you really want to let it have that sort of power? I don't. Are you willing to let something stop you from all you are meant to be? NO!

One day I was especially frustrated with my thoughts and asked Creator if everyone has "crazy" living in their head. He said yes, the ones who are successful, happy, living lives beyond their wildest dreams are the ones who continuously choose their greatness instead of the crazy. Over time, the more you choose your greatness - the power of "crazy" gets less, way, way less.

One quick and easy way to stop it - the moment you hear the "crazy" going on in your head just ask yourself "Am I choosing to use this to distract me from my greatness?" The answer will always be yes as there will never be a good reason to make crap up in your head about yourself or someone else. It will never be the truth as it is based on your judgements, limitations and craziness. 

The reason asking yourself the question is important is so you can take your power back. You can decide in that moment to choose greatness or to choose powerlessness. As with everything, choice is yours.

If you find yourself always talking the same "crazy" I suggest you do some form of additional healing on it. Reiki, ThetaHealing, journaling, yoga, etc, etc, etc. Often when we tell ourselves the same limiting story over and over there are deeper beliefs tied into it that need to be released.

Are you ready to live beyond your wildest dreams??
  
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Infinite blessings,
Glenyce Hughes
Medium & So Much More
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 We have so many bunnies in our yard this year. Although hard to see there are 6 in this picture. My hubby, who loves to plant trees, is not impressed. LOL